Do You Listen To What 'They' Say?

Many times we fall victim to listening to others instead of ourselves. We often fear criticism from others which can prevent us from pursuing our goals. In the past, I have fallen victim to concern myself about what others think. I have learned that you should not care what others think. The only person that can live your life is you. The only person that can achieve your goals and dreams is you. 'They' gain nothing or lose nothing when it comes to your goals. More importantly, "they" are not you. 'They' do not see your vision or feel your passion. But who are 'They'? 'They' are typically people you know: family and friends. 'They' offer opinions about what you should and should not do when it comes to your dreams. 'They' will be quick to tell you that your dream is unreal. 'They' will be quick to criticize you if fail. 'They' are de-motivators. 'They' are dream killers.

If you truly want to achieve your goal or dream, then do it! Do not concern yourself with what 'They' think. Believe in yourself and you will be equipped with every tool that you will need to succeed. Do not listen to what 'They' say; only listen to what you say. Typically the best supporters are people you do not even know.

Why not listen to 'Us'. First, who is 'Us'? 'Us' is anyone who you know that is supportive of your aspirations. We may not be family or friends. We may be someone who you just met that aspires to be successful, like you. We think like you. We are positive, motivated, inspired and believe. We may be on a path to achieve personal goals. We know how you feel. We may need encouragement as well. We tell you to follow your dreams because they will become reality. We have the passion for our endeavor just like you have for yours. We are constantly lifting you up when you fall. We are dream believers. We are cheerleaders. We are you. You are us.

When you are surrounded by like-minded individuals, everyone's energy level will increase. We are all on a path to achieve our goals and dreams. We all believe that we can and will succeed. We all support one another. We all are winners. We are you. You are us.

So the next time you are in doubt, listen to 'Us'. Who cares what 'They' say. By listening to 'Us', you are in reality listening to yourself. We are truly one. You believe in you. We believe in you. You believe in us.

Osric V. Baugham
Chief Motivational Speaker

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Are You Loving Your New Attitude?

If there's one thing I've learned, is that one size does not fit all, and I don't mean clothes-wise, I mean, people-wise. We get into new relationships with certain expectations, only to be disappointed (some times.) - Why? Because ONE size doesn't fit all. Not one person fulfills all your needs, not one child, will be the "be all" for you, and at times, not all parents will be there when you need them. Life happens.

And yet, as individuals, we have powers beyond our own comprehension, which is why sometimes we don't use them, simply because....we don't even know, nor see that those powers are there for us to use as we see fit, only if we could see them and have the know-how to use them.

That's why it is so important to have a new attitude in life and use it....! And while at it.....LOVE it! This is one of the most fundamental ways of moving ahead towards achievement and success.

Is it easy? Hell, no. Is it attainable? You bet it is. It is all about what you want, when you want it, and how you want to accomplish it. And most importantly, WHY you want to attain it. Without the WHY, not much will happen, which brings me back to: One size DOES NOT fit all!

CONSIDER:

Are you different? If so, how? Is it bravery or is it convenience? Can you be loud enough about what you want? Are you open to changes?

OPTIONS:

You can choose to stay the same. (Really???!!!) You can choose the middle of the road. You can decide to add life to your years. You can decide to add years to your life! You can decide that one size does NOT fit all!

POINTS TO PONDER:

A life well-lived, is the icing on the cake. An attitude adjustment is a welcome relief. When no one is looking, you share your broadest smile. An alternative size fits you like a glove. Happiness is....whatever you want to make it.

ACTION PLAN:

Do something outrageous. Document it. Have it clear this is for now, and not just for posterity. Consider what one thing you would do now that you would NEVER leave for

later? Then, DO IT! Enjoy every second of it, and know in your heart, that one size does not fit

all. This is your time to enjoy your new attitude adjustment.

With Much Love,

Ali

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Words Of Motivation: The Rise Of Lewis Hamilton

During the 2011 Formula 1 racing season, the young British driver Lewis Hamilton had a tough time and he was badly in need of words of motivation. A troubled relationship with girlfriend Nicole Scherzinger disturbed the concentration of the normally focused Hamilton and continued bad reactions to his normal aggressive but highly entertaining driving style meant that he ended up in front of race stewards on several occasions. On one occasion he even joked with reporters saying "I have a platinum members card to the stewards area."

Hamilton clearly found his own words of motivation as at the Abu Dhabi race, the penultimate one of the 2011 season, he pulled ahead of the other drivers and stayed there to win: just another chapter in one of those short inspiring stories we all love to hear.

Lewis Hamilton was born nearly 27 years ago on 7 January 1985 to a white British mother, Carmen Larbalestier, and Anthony Hamilton whose parents had come over from Grenada in the 1950s. Lewis was named after the sprinter Carl Lewis and was looked after by his mother for ten years after 1987 when his parents spilt up.

Eventually Lewis was brought up by his father and stepmother. It was during this time his interest in racing really took off. In 1991 Anthony bought his son a radio-controlled car and Lewis came second in the BRDA national championships against adult competitors. It was at this event that Lewis first came to the attention of the BBC and he was featured on the first of several occasions by the popular Blue Peter programme.

Many sports are very expensive and motor racing is no exception. One of the inspirational messages to come out of Lewis Hamilton's story is the fact that he is the first successful Formula 1 driver to come from relatively humble beginnings. Much of this is as a result of Anthony Hamilton's commitment on the early days: he told his son he would support him in his ambitions just as long as Lewis worked hard at school.

Lewis did work hard at school - and at sports too. He represented his school at both football and cricket and feels he could have become a professional footballer if racing had not worked out.

During his motor racing career, Lewis Hamilton has suffered racial abuse and bullying but has survived both with a solid resolve. Interestingly his words of motivation may come from his experiences at school where he was bullied and took up karate to overcome this.

As his part of the bargain, Anthony Hamilton took redundancy from his job as an IT manager to become a contractor. At one stage he even had to work three jobs at a time to support his son's burgeoning career. Anthony's determination eventually led to his own IT company and indeed his ability to pass on words of motivation to Lewis helped him to become his son's manager. He has developed this by providing inspirational messages to and becoming manager to the new up-and-coming British Formula 1 driver, Paul DiResta.

Lewis Hamilton graduated to karting at the age of eight years old and he continued his success in that arena.

During the 1995 Autosports Awards ceremony the team principle of the McLaren Formula 1 team, Ron Dennis, was signing autographs when he was approached by a small ten-year-old boy. The boy looked up at him and said "Hi. I'm Lewis Hamilton. I won the British Championship and one day I want to be racing your cars." Dennis said nothing but instead wrote these words of motivation in the book: "Phone me in nine years, we'll sort something out then."

In fact, it was only three years later that, after Lewis had won his second British karting title, Ron Dennis rang him to sign Lewis on to the McLaren development programme. This included the option for the 13-year-old to drive in Formula 1 in the future.

In 2001 Lewis competed against and impressed the Formula 1 champion Michael Schumacher before moving into the Formula Renault racing series. He began his climb through the racing formulae.

Lewis Hamilton finally got the drive he wanted in a Formula 1 car in 2007, getting a third place in his first race. This was the beginning of a record-breaking career. He became the youngest driver ever to lead the world championship and, in 2008, Lewis finally became the youngest Formula 1 World Champion.

Another constant supporter of his racing career and provider of inspirational messages is Lewis' brother, Nicholas. Nicholas has cerebral palsy but has just started his own career racing in the Renault Clio Cup. He is often at Formula 1 races with his father cheering Lewis on and offering words of motivation. At the 2011 Hungarian Grand Prix, Nicholas was filmed scowling as his brother had to serve another penalty from the stewards.

Perhaps a couple of reasons for the continued appeal of Lewis Hamilton, apart from his obvious driving ability, are his humanity and his sheer determination. His partnership with another former World Champion, Jensen Button, at McLaren has shown the pair to have a great sense of humour that converts to a will to win on the track.

It would be too easy to think that Lewis Hamilton is lucky in the lifestyle he has. The reality is that both he and his father have, and still do, made considerable sacrifices and shown great perseverance to get to this position. There are many inspirational messages to be found in this story.

One last inspirational message. Lewis Hamilton has been criticized for his aggressive driving style but I recall one other driver suffering the same comments: and that was seven times World Champion Michael Schumacher.

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