"Man by nature is insatiable". Indeed this quotation is true as we humans never get contented with what we have. We always want to be smarter, prettier, sexier, or richer than we actually are. We are never satisfied with what we have and who we are. We can never change who and what we are but we can somehow change our outlook and perception so we can become happy and fulfilled. We can become better than our old selves. Here are some tips to become better which are proven effective.
1. BODY- As much as possible, maintain a body weight that could boost your confidence. I was chubby once and back then I felt so inferior. People used to stare at me especially that I am gifted with physical endowments. But when I started losing pounds of weight and eventually became an average size, I started gaining confidence and so I performed better in every thing. Truly, looking good makes you feel good, right?
2. BEARING- When you are comfortable with your body, it will show in the way you conduct yourself especially in public. Bearing is your confidence that no matter how you look if you accept who and what you are, you would still appear confident. It's all in the way you carry yourself- a person who knows his/ her worth in this world and is therefore unique. So carry that indestructible confidence! You are a child of God and therefore have the right to be with all kinds of people and be treated as equal. In the eyes of our Divine Creator, we are very special and we are created for one special purpose in His own glory.
3. BEAUTY- Beauty is relative and subjective. What may be beautiful and pleasing for me, may not be the case for others. Therefore, if you compare your beauty with others you will either feel inferior or superior. What is important is the beauty of your heart that is capable of great love and understanding for others. Free your heart from sinful thoughts and negative emotions. Instead, fill your heart with appreciation and gratitude that you are a child of god- born in His likeness and image.
4. BABBLE- Babble is your speech. Whatever comes from your mouth is the content of your heart. Therefore, strive to speak as true living witness of God. Be a person whose speech clearly shows God's influence and power. Be a living witness to God in your testimony and proclamation of truth.
5. BELIEF- Lastly, you cannot have all of the above unless you have faith that there is something good in you as God who is the Greater Good created you. Believe in the existence of a Supreme Being who made everything possible on earth.
If all these will be worked out, then undoubtedly you will become a better YOU.
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